You can not change something unless you accept the reality of the situation.
For instance, I can’t change my dirty kitchen floor unless I choose to
accept the fact that it is dirty and needs to be mopped. Take me for
example… I tried for years to lose weight to no avail. Then, one day I
decided that I was who I was, I weighed what I weighed, and I may not be
stick thin, but I can look good anyway! About six months later, I was able
to seek out the help I needed, and the weight started melting away…..
Accepting reality is pretty powerful. Sometimes it’s easy. Other times
it’s downright scary. Sometimes it bites. *S* but no matter what, you can
not change anything unless you accept what it is right now.